IDC 2021 30Jan Plenaries
DISCIPLESHIP
Loneliness, Anxiety, Depression
3 or 4 of major epidemics around the world
covid19 intensify, magnify it
love one another
serve one another
comfort one another
if u experience loneliess, go to others
each day if u make significant diff in other's life
u less likely to experience loneliness
encourage ppl thanking each other
even in lockdown, make changes in others life
be organized, know why u doing it
Be intentional to build relationship
i need to build relationship
hangout wif fren family
Organize ur day
wake up on time
get dressed
go buiseness
make list can control n cnt control de things
control- time u wak eup
uncontrol
we need pro health
nt needed if u weakness
god giv us counsellor to ministry to us
pray for everything, even its in sequential
journey to become what God want you to be
Dont dwell on negatives
Dwell on Him
we need to share with someone who care us
loving accepting other ppl
what is the key to success in happiness?
econimically n evrything in ur life
RELATIONSHIPS
RELATIONSHIPS
ultimately, healthy relationship
know tht person has ur bck
God wants to live in u n through u
do they talk about loneliness, problems, loneliness, frustrations
emotions go way over board
real deep emotional issues in their life
u can recommend ppl to others
We r nt equipped as other professional equipped
listening to others
be vry vry careful
- learn about loneliness, depression, anxiety ( causes, manifestate )
- listen to tht person
- love, let go, turn then into professional counsellor
most of us nt equip
some pastor can be wrong counsel, we need to be cautious
when u hav acute situation, acute- talking about suicide,
depression, emotional response
indication (social media)
dont be quick to speak as well
be in position to provide professional counsel
prepare contact, giv them contact
adress issues frm pulpit
create community whr safe to be urself
create a safe place to express frustration
tht u wont gossip
TRUST foundation of relationship
how to restore trust btwn members
- be a person of ur word, do not promise more than u can deliver
- confess ur sin
- ask forgiveness
- wht can i do to rebuild ur trust in me?
humility- powerful forces in world
nt saying im ntg im ntg
biblical- know who u r, who made you who you are, giving God the glory of all
SHOW EMPATHY for the person, hav their bck to them
im sorry for u
i cnt imagine wht u had experience
but i know, God is good, for wht all do is good for you, i'll walk it with u
why need affirm?
we need to knowwe are value, all will done things wrong
it juz the way we are
be someone can understand others
walk alongside us, affirm us
HEAD HEART HAND
girls more common to suicide
they dont hav accent relatioinship with father
dont realize powerful relationship of tht, if dont realize
you pay a price
providing role models
we nid models
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